As for my husband, he rarely tells me what he wants. Actually, I am the one who offers him to buy something he wanted. Pride really is dominant on males, especially a family guy. Being needy probably is not on their list of attitudes because it's a big punch on their egos. My husband really makes tiis if he cannot get what he wanted, and he didn't want the idea that his wife would buy him something...even a meal a fastfood! That's why whenever I give him something, he would tell me, "anu ka ba, hindi mo na dapat yan binili para sa akin." I know he means that my money could have spent in other important things, but I admit, sometimes, I feel hurt when he turns down my little surprises for him. But take note: when it comes to bed, he's the needy one. He would do anything just to get me in the mood to make love with him (not that I don't want to, but sometimes he wants on the night when I'm so damn tired from work). I won't get into details...you probably know what I mean...hey, I think every husband is just as needy as him when it comes to bed. Haha!